because not wanting to swap communal gob somehow made me the bad guy, ugh!
)When I was first hired in advertising, I (yet again) thought that I had hit utopian good fortune.
Online dating sites love to boast about the millions of members they have.
But as it turns out, they’re heaving shovelfuls of statistical manure at you.
We’ve all longed for something at some point or another but when working deeper with these feelings you can start to distinguish between your wants and your needs.
Treat online winks like whistles you might elicit on a busy city street.You had a plan that came complete with expectations and then by the very nature of relationships you had to put the ball in someone else’s court and they didn’t hit it back, leaving you standing like a lemon with your tennis racket ready to play but no ball.How long can you stand there before feeling foolish?This means that 19 out of 20 profiles on these sites are either past members who aren’t around anymore, or non-paying members who can’t respond.OKCupid was acquired by Match in 2011, and that article has since been taken down (for obvious reasons).